By Ruth Skilbeck
Today when I called into my local bottle shop in Newcastle,
I was unable to not notice that the young man behind the counter
was sporting a large padded fluoro orange vest - rather like a life saving
jacket- emblazoned with the initials BWS - which stands for the name of the
alcohol chain- Beer Wine Spirits. When I looked up their website, to check I
had the right name, I found their tagline " We take responsible service of
alcohol seriously".
Safety gear. Mum was, after the family returned to
Australia, an education officer of the ACT Cancer Society -she introduced the
Legionnaires Hat to Australian schools (she had someone design it according to
her vision). But I don't recall that she wore it herself. She wore rather natty
wide brimmed straw hats. To keep her safe from the sun.
Even so, even she who was so careful and educated so many about
this very thing, contracted a melanoma on her calf. Could it have been all the hours she spent
gardening in the house we moved into in Kambah when the family first moved back
to Australia? There was so much to do there to try to hurry the speed of progress and natural growth, to
transform the surreal suburban moonscape into a functional pleasure garden. Who would
not have felt burdened by that responsibility? that she took on, and
maintained, even after Dad left. But it was more likely she explained to
us to have been the result of a childhood in Sydney, at a time when the word
melanoma had not even been invented. A time of happy innocence. On the edge of
the gully. It was after that diagnosis,
and the subsequent operation that left a crater in the surface of her pale calf
that, despite her condition of chronic fatigue syndrome, she defied Doctor’s
orders and stoically packed up her house in Raymond Terrace and flew out of Australia,
to the other side of the world, back to London. Never to return.
© Copyright Ruth Skilbeck, 2012
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